So, you lost your girlfriend and now she hates you.
There's a saying that love is everything. We can't live without it, breath without it; and when it's lost, it can break your heart.
Common reasons why your girlfriend would hate you are probably not trying hard enough to make a relationship work, being too controlling over her or not giving enough attention she deserves; and even sometimes cheating.
First lets see what a girlfriend needs and wants, and what she doesn't.
What she wants:
- She needs a lot of attention. Caring about her, kissing her, hugging etc. to make her feel special and loved. Even flowers could make a bad day look like a good day to her
- They are always looking for a long relationship, not something that will end-up in a week or so, and they need to see it from you and trust you that you want it also.
- She wants to know she is the only one for you and there is no one else on your mind. To make it happen, you have to devote a lot of time to her
Now what she doesn't want:
- Controlling her. What they mostly hate is for someone to control her always, tell her what to do, what to wear and even what to say. Give her the freedom she needs and trust her so she'll trust you
- Giving up easy in difficult situations and not trying hard enough to make it work.
And there is much, much more. Don't feel bad or think all is lost since there is always a way to fix it and girls are after a "happy and long ending".
Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QtR9W_-bp68
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