I don't think it would surprise any one if I told you that 99% of
people will have experienced a break up at some point in their life.
Having been involved in more than my share, what I never realized was
that I was mostly to blame. Like many, my pride blocked any path to
clear thinking and it would not allow me to blame myself.. The fact that
I never took the time to look at it from their side never even crossed
my mind. Sound like some one you know? If your ready to put in the work
to get back with ex then read on below. Hurt feelings on both
sides are a fore gone conclusion anytime to people break up. Put your
self in the others shoes for a moment If you can put yourself in your
ex's place for a bit you'll see maybe they are not as wrong as you
though. Once you are able to see things a little more clearly you will
be ready to take the second step towards getting an ex back.
The
next step is to push your pride to the side and visit your ex. You don't
want them to think that you are stalking or begging them however. When
you speak to your ex, tell them you've done some thinking and would like
to talk. Make your ex as comfortable as possible. If you come across as
defensive or upset you will make your ex uncomfortable. Make them feel
like you are offering a no strings attached open line of communication.
The
third step is to give them some space. Don't make the mistake of
pestering your ex at this point. Pestering your ex is just going to push
them further away from you. From this point you have to try to live
your life as normal as possible. Feeling down is still going to be
normal, but your life will go on I promise. Moving on will create a
curiosity within your ex about what you are doing. This is going to make
your ex curious as to how your doing so well without them. This is
going to make them wild and drive them right back to you.
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