So, you want to talk to your ex again. Whether it be just as
friends or to start things over again, then follow these 3 simple tips:
1- Do not argue and plead with your ex
Break
up is break up period. There is no need to argue about it. "Come on
honey, I'm sure if we sit down and talk we can work things out". NO, its
over done, accept it. You don't have to fight the break up. If you want
to get back with your ex, then think about getting her back, not
fighting the break up. Is that clear?
2- Stop the emergency calls
OK
she does not answer your calls. Should you then say something like
"Hey, its an emergency call me back!"? NO NEVER, because its straight
lying, there is no emergency. Do you want your ex to see you as a liar?
So what you are going to do right now is stop spamming her email, voice
mail etc. Try and stay real, be who you are, be the person your ex used
to date. There is no need to change because of a break up.
3- Now actually get talking to her
So
she doesn't answer your calls, you cant use the fake emergency, how on
earth am I going to talk to her? Well use curiosity. It always works. I
will give you an example. Now try not to copy it, try to make it your
own style. Call her when you're sure she can't pick up the phone, so you
can leave a message, and say "Hi it's me, I just wanted to thank you
for everything you've done and was hoping to talk to you. Now if you
have been doing 1 and 2, you might want to wait a week before making
this call. But this call will peak her interest. What have I done for
him? Why is he thankful? And eventually she will give you a call back.
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